"Find A Job That You Enjoy Doing And You Will Never Work A Day In Your Life"

 

"Find a job that you enjoy doing and you will never work a day in your life." Mark Twain

No one asked me, what if that job included undressing in front of a man.  I love doing that.  I've always enjoyed the rush, the thrill of watching a man's eyes change or look at me in such a way, knowing that he was totally captivated by my looks and body.  I'm a woman.  We know these things.  We learn them at an early age. 

By the time we're in middle school we see the way a boy's eyes change and heads turn when we walk into a room.  As we graduate onto high school, we become even more aware of how boys pause talking to each other when we enter a room or walk by.  When we wear something extra colorful, complimenting our figure, or something a little revealing, we also see the difference in our reception. 

It's pretty amazing.  We know when men are looking at our tits instead of our faces.  We know when men are checking out our butts as we walk past them.  Some women become immune to it because we are so used to it.  We just ignore it.  Sometimes we can't ignore it because it happens at inappropriate times and feels just really rude or creepy.  But when the time is right...some of us still enjoy the mesmerizing attention.

Most men love to see women dress sexy or eye-catching.  Some men date us, and only want us to dress sexy when we are around them.  We, women, know that the former and the ladder examples of men, both have their strengths and weaknesses.  Usually, if they don't care about how we dress when they take us out, they are either very confident or simply don't care about us leaving them.

On the other hand, if they are too overprotective, although they may feel warm and caring initially, it could also reveal an extreme, controlling personality.  That usually means that he's going to be a pain in the ass telling you what to do all the time, or an outright abusive man.  When we women are younger, it's hard to see that deep inside, this man is actually very emotionally weak.  They lack the confidence and common sense that if we wanted to be with another man - we would leave him right then and there.

Then there's always that one guy out there who doesn't mind his girl showing herself off.  In fact, he knows that his girl doesn't want any other man except him...no matter how much she shows off.  She's still his.

I got married at 24 to a man who I thought wanted to protect me.  I was young and stupid.  I thought I needed that man to protect me from other bad men. As it turned out, he was overly protective and a closet chauvinist.  After three kids, two careers, and him having multiple affairs - I had to leave him.  

And then I wandered onto my third career of posing nude for money.  While I was wandering into this new career, I met the man that I had always wanted and founded a group of women who were in their 30's, 40's, and 50's who also wanted to pose nude.  They helped me break some old social barriers for women in this 21st century.