"I want to be the last voice you hear at night and the first voice you hear in the morning"

"I want to be the last voice you hear at night, and the first voice you hear in the morning" is a quote that has been attributed to Cate Blanchett.  Whether she said it or not, she is not the only woman who has ever felt this way when they felt strongly for their particular man.  When we women feel deeply for our lover's attention, trust, and sexual touch - we can become highly desirous to lock in his attention and try to make ourselves the only woman that he can think about.  It's intoxicating.  Especially when he is a great lover, or he bring us to emotional or psychological highs that most other men can't.  He actually triggers something in our brain on a biochemical level.

When we fall in love like this, it's like being on a drug that's more powerful than even cocaine.  Scientifically it's called endorphins.  Socially it's called "in love". 

As we get older, we are supposed to grow intellectually and become more aware of our emotional strengths and weaknesses.  We are supposed to figure our way out of falling in love with a man who has no real concerns for our needs.  We are supposed to be able to better screen and know what type of man is best for our spirits.  We tend to have a better sense of knowing what type of man holds us up in high esteem and keeps us as a priority in his life. That way we can surrender ourselves to him, and enjoy his company.  We learn to not make ourselves overly dependent on his needs, actions, and decisions and fall into an unhealthy relationship.

When we learn to have balance in ourselves and our relationship, releasing our sexual energy becomes magical.  To properly seduce a man all we have to do is just say a certain word, give him a certain look, wear a certain set of clothing, exit the shower in a certain robe...and he's all ours.

How do you seduce your man?  What do you do, say, or wear to automatically take his mind off of whatever he's focused on other than you?