"No Woman Gets An Orgasm From Shining A Kitchen Floor"


 

Betty Friedan once said, "No woman gets an orgasm from shining a kitchen floor."

Yes, indeed.  We get our orgasms from embracing our sexuality.  When we embrace our feelings, our fantasies, along with our own moralities, we empower ourselves to live more and take control of our lives. When we take control over how the beauty of our bodies are portrayed, we can redefine our feminine beauty and not leave it in the hands of some boyhood fantasy trapped in the minds of most misogynistic men.

Are we trying to please the actual man in our lives?  Or are we trying to please just the men who want to completely control us like their own personal play toys?   Perhaps we should just feel brave enough to discover what's pleases the man in our lives and teach him what pleases us?  That seems better than living through those unattainable visual images that constantly get paraded around through society's imagery of female perfection.

We all want to look and feel our best.  But, not all of us women are a size one, or some version of a poster or magazine model.  Some of us are tall, short, petite, plump, curvy, and round.  Nevertheless, we all feel too.  We all "want" love and desire good love making too.  We all won't hold all of you men up to, and compare you to a statue of Hercules.  We'll just hold you up to the standard of a good man, or a good, caring lover, or all the above.  Make us feel as wanted and important as you want us to make you feel.

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