Maddie's Coffee Klatch

  "Find a job that you enjoy doing and you will never work a day in your life." Mark Twain No one asked me, what if that job included undressing in front of a man.  I love doing that.  I've always enjoyed the rush, the thrill of watching a man's eyes change or look at me in such a way, knowing that he was totally captivated by my looks and body.  I'm a woman.  We know these things.  We learn them at an early age.  By the time we're in middle school we see the way a boy's eyes change and heads turn when we walk into a room.  As we graduate onto high school, we become even more aware of how boys pause talking to each other when we enter a room or walk by.  When we wear something extra colorful, complimenting our figure, or something a little revealing, we also see the difference in our reception.  It's pretty amazing.  We know when men are looking at our tits instead of our faces.  We know when men are checking out our butts as w...

  "Stop using sex as a weapon.  You already know you're my obsession.  Stop using sex as a weapon.  Love is more than a one way reflection."  Pat Benatar My marriage was over.  I was hanging onto it like a comfort blanket that I had completely grown out of.  We both had been using sex as a weapon to each other to reflect our own unhappiness.  We both had moments when we strayed. Rather than be mature, shake hands - and put an end to the contract of our marriage, we ignored the deterioration, did our separate things until we barely knew each other.  If we decided to have sex, it was always used as a weapon for one of us to get something from the other. The day we separated, I started going to counseling.  As time grew on, I grew up and owned up to realization where I fell very short in my marriage.  I realized my childhood issues that I carried inside me and into my marriage, needed to be resolved before I could move on.  My hus...

  Sophocles once said, "How terrible is wisdom when it brings no profit to the man that's wise."  I agree.  I likewise say "How terrible is wealth, if it does nothing to satisfy your emotional and physical health."  Yesterday, I managed to post our first picture on the Instagram account of the same name. I was immediately presented with offers for promotional contacts along with several "pimp" offers.  Most interestingly, I was even offered a $3,000 weekly allowance from a man who simply wanted companionship.  All of us can relate to having such lonely feelings inside ourselves. Let's remember that not all women have healing and compassionate natures.  Some of us are as broken up and dismissive of our compassionate natures as some poorly raised men.  Hopefully, "MaddiesCoffeeKlatch" will provide some solace, warmth, and sexuality to help men and women feel like they are welcomed to be just themselves. That they can embrace their inner chi...

Shere Hite once said, "We should call sex something else and it should include everything from kissing to sitting close together."  If she were alive today, I wonder what she would want to call sex today if she saw a picture of me showing off my breasts and vagina to thousands of men and women, and getting them to actually connect with the humanity of their own sexuality?  I wonder how she would feel if she then knew that I managed to find six sexy and classy female friends to do the same with me?  We call ourselves the Sensuous Seven.  So there I was 45, the mother of three children, stuck in transitional stages of a failing marriage and dead-end career, wondering what was the next big challenge of my life...to sort of rule the world.  Was this all of the advancement that my mother and her mother had fought for from the late 1940s and late 1980s? Well, I and my girlfriends have decided to turn over the social apple cart.  We decided that we were going to r...